| Thomas Michael Goldman McGlynn 23.02.2003 - 10.09.2008 |
|  When We Eloped -- October 2007 At 4 years of age Thomas was diagnosed with High Functioning Autism which helped explain some of his little quirks, especially his diet of only lamb cutlets and Sunkist cordial. | Thomas was born with a rare congential heart defect, aortic to left ventricle tunnel, which was corrected by surgery at just 15 days of age and then repaired again at 15 months at Westmead's Children's Hospital.  October 07 on holidays .. buggered |
 1st day of School Feb 08 | Thomas loved to be on his own in his room playing his playstation and only wanting you to go in if he was stuck and needed help with a game. He was such a regular at EB games that he got a discount on all the games he bought. Sunday 19th April, Thomas was in his room and came out huffing and puffing saying mum, come watch me on the computer, I said hold on, are you ok ..he was short of breath and said yes, I went into his room and sat on his bed and watched him play his computer for about 20 minutes and was concerned how short of breath he was, I felt his heart and it was racing, I took to Cessnock Hospital, he had an ECG, and sat brilliantly for it. | | His heart was at 140 bpm, everything else was ok with the ECG, he was sent home with a follow up with his cardiologist. | |
| Second week of term three, he started 4 days a week at his satellite Autistic school, Thursdays were excursion days. Thursday 31st July 2008, was at a nature reserve in Newcastle and he had been really good before then, so I sent him to school only to a phone call at 12.30pm that day to say Thomas had lost control of his bodily functions and was a shade of blue, I jumped in the car and drove the 40 minutes to get him and took him to John Hunter Hospital in Newcastle which was only 5 minutes from where they were. I was told a lot of things that could have caused this, stroke, seizure etc, he was breathing at 70% and admitted to hospital. |  July 31, 2008 - Day we first took him to hospital | |
 August 08 - 2nd time in hospital | We spent 9 days in hospital, due to his behavioral/autism was given an general to have an Echo (as always mucked up for this at his cardiologist) which came back that it was not anything to with his previous heart condition but had pulmonary hypertension, which to me was a relief, not knowing what was PH was. On the Friday we came home and he was started on Sildenfil, which we put in his Sunkist as he wouldn't take anything else orally. | |
| He had a week at home before going back to his cardiologist for a check up. He just played his playstation and ate his choppies. I took him to school one day so he could get his school photos's taken. In this week at home I googled PH so much that it made me so scared but had hopes of medication working. Monday 18th August he had a follow up with his cardiologist, who didn't like the look of him and said he needs to be hospital so we took him straight back to John Hunter Hospital where he was admitted for a further 5 days. They stopped the sildenfil and he had a cannula put in … against his wishes, and was getting lasix by IV, and was started on bosentan and spirolacten orally, which was a major drama, as the sildenfil I could hide in his Sunkist as syringing medications into him was enough to turn him blue. |  August 08 - school photo |  September 5, 2008 day before PEG surgery . last pic taken | On Monday 1st September 2008, I sat him up to fix up his prongs on his face and he was puffing so I took straight to Cessnock Hospital where his feet were quite blue and upped his oxygen to 4 litres and got him stable then we were transported by ambulance to John Hunter Hospital. We were moved to a private room. Friday 5th September he had his Operation to have a Percutaneous Endoscopic Gastrostomy (PEG) put in, so he could get his full medications and feed him as they were very aware of what Thomas was like with taking his meds and his poor diet, and came through this beautifully. | | 6am on Wednesday morning (10th September 2008) , Thomas woke up and woke me saying he needed to go to the toilet, and he spasmed on me, which I was told was he went hypoxic, I buzzed like crazy, by the time the nurses came he was talking again and I felt I imagined it, they got a doctor and again ICU came down to visit. His sats had dropped and they put him on 8 litres through the WHO machine then and blow over of 15 litres, but nothing was really sustaining him. I sat and cried telling the nurse, this is the end, I know they can't help him. I rang my husband and said things aren't good. My husband and my parents came straight down. At 10.49am he was pronounced dead. We went back into his room and spent some time with him. He passed away the day before his brothers 3rd birthday. | |